Family Mediation
use of mediation
Family Law Mediation (家庭法调解) is a process that helps spouses in conflict to find common ground with the guidance of a neutral third party.
Mediation allows parties in a family law dispute to stay in control of the outcome, unlike a court ruling. Booking a Mediation Day focuses minds and encourages open dialogue without the pressure of a judge’s decision.
Unlike court, which is adversarial, time-consuming, and expensive, mediation fosters a more collaborative environment where parties can explore solutions that benefit everyone. It helps prevent further courtroom battle resentment and it allows participants to own their solution. Even when mediation does not result in a final agreement, it can lessen the number of issues in dispute and help create a foundation for a deal.
Less Stress, More Control
Mediation is voluntary and confidential, giving participants the power to create solutions that are tailor-made for their own family situation.
Time and Cost Savings
Compared with the stresses and delay of the court system, mediation is often much more affordable and solutions can be arrived at much quicker compared with the traditional court process.
Preserving Relationships
When parties arrive at their own settlement, there is a greater chance that relationships can be maintained and strengthened. This is especially the case where the parties have children and where they will be in a co-parenting relationship for a long time after the dispute is resolved.
how it works
Mediation is a structured and guided conversation that helps parties move toward a resolution. Dermot can help.
By developing open communication, mediation encourages problem-solving and allows both spouses to find a mutually acceptable outcome without the cost and stress of court. Mediation allows both spouses to air their grievances, share their stories, and reach their compromised solution. Carraig Law Group's Dermot Devine is a firm believer in the power of mediation to save you time, money, and stress.
1. Setting the Stage
Dermot will establish ground rules and ensures that both parties agree to engage in the mediation process in good faith. Before the session (which is usually one day), spouses exchange financial documents and they may set out their ideal outcome.
2. Sharing Perspectives
Spouses present their point of view without fear of interruption. This step allows everyone to express their concerns and objectives while Dermot facilitates respectful dialogue.
3. Exploring Solutions
Dermot will help to identify common ground, encourage creative problem-solving, and guide negotiations to explore possible compromises.
4. Reaching an Agreement
If a resolution is found, Dermot will help to formalize the agreement, ensuring both parties are clear on the next steps. Even if a full agreement isn't reached, mediation often narrows the issues, making future resolution easier.
about the mediator
Introducing Dermot
Lawyer and Accredited Family Law Mediator since 2016
telephone
(778) 907 1181
After only a number of months practicing family law, Dermot realized that mediation was by far and away the best way of resolving most family disputes. He signed up for mediation training and received his certificate of qualification in 2016.
Dermot is a strong advocate of the mediation process. The traditional court process often costs an extraordinary amount of money. That money is hard-earned and unfortunately it is often wasted on legal fees.
Dermot's position is this: Peace of Mind is invaluable. The stresses and uncertainty of the traditional court process can exacerbate what is an already stressful situation. Often, there is no need for spouses to put themselves through this interminable process. There is an alternative.
More often than not, it is in the best interests of everyone, spouses and children, to reach a negotiated settlement through mediation.
Remember these three words: Peace. Of. Mind.
Call Dermot at (778) 907 1181 to find out more about how he can help to save you time, money, and unnecessary stress.